Monday, February 06, 2012

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Don’t Plan, Just Do



The following is taken from parts of a blog by Jonathan Mead, creator of the personal development site illuminated mind. It’s a really great side that promotes the less boring side of personal development.

If we are all truly different, why do we try to force the unique shapes of our personalities, skills, beliefs and ideas into the square peg of social acceptance?

Here’s the basic template for life:

  • Learn to walk/speak, be a good boy/good girl
  • Go to school, get good grades
  • Go to college, graduate. Try to find something you love, but eventually sacrifice your passion and settle for a career choice that’s practical.
  • Get a job
  • Get married
  • Have kids
  • Die
This is the most common life pattern. Most of us think that this is just normal; it’s just the way it is damnit. If our only motive to live is to survive, to keep the hamster wheel spinning, then I’m done. I just can’t imagine a life where security is the highest value. Security is definitely an important part of life, our survival depends on it. But excitement, adventure, pain, turbulence, drama, passion, mystery and pleasure are equally important. I think we forget this because security is the basis for us being able to experience all those other wonderful things. Yet security is a means, it’s not the reason for living itself. Just as we don’t live to eat, we eat to live; we don’t find happiness to seek security, we seek security to facilitate happiness.

The truth is, most of us know what we want. We know what makes us feel alive and what makes us feel dead. The answer then isn’t looking for yourself, but having the courage to live unabashedly, to do what truly brings you bliss. The collateral of claiming your personal freedom and rejecting the cubicle mind mentality might mean getting some strange looks and being completely rejected once in a while. People might question your choice to not go for so-called security. People might think you’re a total nut-case. But that’s okay. You’d probably look at the same people living fearlessly and wonder what the hell they’re doing. That’s the beauty of diversity. Homogeneity is the bane of life.


 

There’s More Than One Way to be Charitable



Here at Trippedoff we have been really excited in the past week or so to see the amount of people coming and enjoying our site grow and grow. We have had some really positive feedback from everyone saying that they absolutely love the site and the concept behind it.

The obstacle we are coming against however is that everyone loves reading all the interesting articles but not everyone seems to be finding the time to add their own adventures and experiences. Not that we blame you we understand that everyone leads busy lives and we appreciate the support of everyone regardless of their contributions, but we have made a promise to ourselves that we don’t want this site to be purely the experiences of a small few. That isn’t what the site is about. We hope to have a broad range of well rounded experiences, from all walks of life.

This morning I went to donate blood, I feel really great (if not a bit drained), because I know my contribution will help someone in need. But I never lose sight of the fact that there are many, many ways to help others, it doesn’t always have to be those in need. By taking the time to add your travel experiences it is likely that you are helping to enrich the experiences and lives of others who frequent this site. I know it may sound a bit hippyish and alternative but I really believe this. Wouldn’t you hope that if you are in a foreign yet potentially exciting place that someone had made the effort to help you have the time of your life?
   

Horses for Courses, DYOR

I recently got back from a trip to Cairns. I live in Australia and it has taken me 27 years and a marriage to get to see what so many people have told me is a must see. But lets get this straight Cairns, the city itself, is not a must see. The Great Barrier Reef is a must see. The Daintree Rainforest and Cape Tribulation are must sees. I repeat Cairns city itself is not a must see, nor for me was it a must do. I was staying at Palm cove, a northern beach suburb of Cairns and definitely a beautiful resort town I would describe a must stay kind of place, and I felt the need to venture into Cairns City twice and twice too often in my book.

Of course I have been told that Cairns nightlife is a must IF you are a twenty something backpacker looking to meet likeminded others seeking a good time. However no one told me this and through the luck of having a great travel agent help organise my honeymoon I was spared rueing my choice of holiday destination for six nights.

So my advice is despite what people suggest (even on this website, as terrific as it is), DYOR, Do Your Own Research, because one person’s dream travel experience is another’s nightmare. I invite you to share some of your holiday successes or nightmares…
   

To Complain or Not To Complain..

I was sitting across from my fiancee, Mel, at a restaurant the other day looking at the meal that I had ordered. Actually, I didn't think that this was the meal that I had ordered because the meal that was in my head was quite a lot nicer than the one that I had received. I began to raise my hand and out of the corner of my eye caught the look that Mel gave me. You see, we have slightly differing views on whether or not a complaint should be made. For me, if I'm not happy with what I've received and I don't think that the restaurant staff are going to spit in my food, then I'll (un)happily tell them what the problem is; whereas other people, including Mel, have a higher tolerance level for that kind of thing.

If you've ever seen Gordon Ramsay's show, Hell's Kitchen, where would-be chefs battle it out to become an executive chef at one of Gordon's restaurant, just about everyone sends their meal back especially during the early stages of the show. Although it makes for great TV, I don't think that it's realistic; when I'm out the only person I've seen complain about their food is me! Not that I'm always sending food back, but I just want to make sure I'm getting what I paid for.
   

Are You Seated?

Unless you are lucky enough to fly everywhere First class, flying can be a necessary evil for getting from A to B.

In this day and age most of us check in online to ensure we don’t get that dreaded middle seat or to make sure we get a window. Whatever your requirements we could all do with helping hand to make the journey a little more comfortable.

Before choosing your seat make sure you check out www.seatguru.com

By selecting your airline and type of carrier, Seat Guru will give you the specific details of seats with limited recline, reduced legroom, misaligned windows as well as the locations of the gallery, lavatories and exit rows.

A good seat will get the trip of to a good start. It may not be the same as First class but just while you are waiting for that lotto win……

   

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